I met another lady today who's ex told her that assuming she at any point left him that she could Never see her girls again

I met another lady today who's ex told her that assuming she at any point left him that she could Never see her girls again. After 7yrs of continuations in Hend. Co.N.C. Legal framework, She had the option to see her girls once more, Only in the wake of beginning a discourse with her victimizer, she encouraged me to converse with my ex, since it's better for the kids to have their mom.