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until he wants to stop drinking and using drugs, the only thing you can do is keep yourself, your pregnancy and the other child safe. get a restraining order so that he cannot be
near you. If necessary contact Child Protective Services involved to protect rhe other child. Unfortunately you cannot fix the father. Been thru this with 40 year old son. I got restraining order, evicted him from home I let him live in and stopped giving him money. Made him homeless and cut off giving him money. You must do whatever you can just to protect yourself even if you need to contact all public services to obtain all help available. Only he can fix himself.